Aug 30, 2011

How to Attract a Tomboy

How to Attract a Tomboy


  1. 1
    Play sports with her or hang out with her. Do this progressively, so as not to freak her out with your sudden interest in her sporting activities.

  2. 2
    Find out some funny jokes. Most girls love funny guys, even if they are tomboys.
  3. 3
    Leave the clothing compliments aside. It is not really a good idea to compliment a tomboy on her outfit. The chances are that she became a tomboy to avoid the whole girly-girl cutesy thing.
  4. 4
    Make sure she is available before making your move on her. Girls (and tomboys) don't like guys hitting on them when they have a boyfriend already.
  5. 5
    Learn about what her interests are and start getting interested in them. Naturally, don't change yourself; just try to see if some of those interests enthuse you and adjust a little.
  6. 6
    Slowly but confidently start flirting with her. Do this in a way that isn't that noticeable and more by way of mateship. If you persevere and keep it casual but kind, after a time, she will start to find herself liking you.
  7. 7
    Build things up. After awhile, if she shows signs that she likes you too then you can turn up the flirting a notch. Don't play too easy though; then she won't feel that she is powerful, and most girls like thinking they have a sense of power over love. Love should be shared, not be a power struggle.
  8. 8
    Be patient. If she is the confident tomboy many tomboys are, then she might either ask you out or tell you she likes you. If she doesn't do this, then ask her out.

Edit Tips

  • Become friends first.
  • Find her interests.
  • Be as funny as possible.
  • Make sure she is open.
  • Flirt confidently and gradually.
  • Flirt a little more after awhile.
  • Be the same guy when you go out. Girls don't like guys changing once they're in a relationship with them.

Edit Warnings

  • Make sure she is receptive to being in a romantic relationship.
  • Take care with the compliments; make sure she enjoys compliments before piling them on.
  • Keep the flirting chilled at first, so as not to overwhelm her.
  • Don't be too easy to get.
  • Don't change who you are once you start going steady.
  • Some tomboy's aren't really interested in relationships.