انا قريت موضوع وحابه انقله لكم وياريت كلن منكم يعطيني رايه بالكلام الي يقراه

Most relationships can be salvaged "couples reunite every day regardless of the situationseriously, doesn’t that make sense? That if most of us can think of couples that have gotten back together .. under even some horrible circumstances .. that there could be some hidden recipe, or secret even , to reigniting passion and recapturing lost love?people get back all the timeso why is your relationship would be any differentcouples get together after a divorce so why not you guys ?have some faith and never lose hope ..there is hope for each relationshiptrust me in this هل تضنون انه في امل لكل علاقه ؟لو مهما كان الموقف ؟i belive in forgive and forget how about you all

SOME WAYS TO SURVIVE A BROKE-UP.

◘◘◘ BEFORE YOU READ THIS , YOU MUST KNOW THAT..I'M JUST SUGGESTING SOME WAYS TO SURVIVE A BROKE-UP....IT MIGHT HELP YOU & IT MIGHT NOT ◘◘◘

Whether you have left your partner, or she has left you, surviving a lesbian break-up is hard. Sometimes it may feel like you may never recover from the break-up. But you will. These tips might make recovering from a break-up easier.
Difficulty: Hard
Time Required: Can Take a Year or More
Here's How:
1- Recognize what has happened.
The first thing you might be feeling is, "I can't believe this is happening!" Shock and denial are normal in the early stages of recovery from a break-up. You keep thinking you'll wake up from the bad dream or that your lover will return. This is the first step in the grieving process. Once you begin to believe that it's really over, you're ready to move on to the next step of healing from a break-up.
2- Next you might feel anger toward your partner.
Good, this is the second step of grieving. At this time, it is a good idea to get away from your partner. If you live together, move out or go stay with some friends. Too many lesbian couples continue to live together after they break up. If you can't afford to move out, go stay with a friend for a while. You need to separate to get a clear head. Don't drive by her house or ask friends about her new girlfriend, you'll only torture yourself.
3- Get support.
Call on your friends. Your friends, not your mutual friends. At this time you need someone who is going to take your side. You don't need a reasonable voice at this time. You need a friend who will nod in agreement at every horrible thing your ex has done. She'll tell you how wonderful you are and how much better off you are without her. There's plenty of time to be reasonable in the future. Right now you need to vent.
4- Mourn, but don't wallow.
Feeling sad is normal. Yes, it's okay to cry, scream and feel pity for yourself. But don't allow the situation to turn you into a bitter human being. Give yourself up to a year to grieve. If after that time you're still welling up with tears at the thought of her, it's time to see a therapist. Something else is probably going on to cause your sadness.
5- Get Closure.
Say the things to her that you need to and leave it at that. If she won't see you face to face, send her a letter. Beware of e-mail, where you can write something regrettable and impulsively hit send. If you choose to communicate by e-mail, be sure to wait 24 hours before sending off your letter.
6- No Rebounds.
It sure can be tempting to enter into a new relationship to help you forget the old one. But if you don't give yourself time to heal and reflect on what happened with the last one, you're bound to repeat the same patterns.
7- Let it all out.
Get your feelings out in healthy ways. Write them down, make a painting, write a fantastic break-up song, listen to great break-up songs, go for a run. Let it out in what ever way feels best to you. Avoid turning to drugs or alcohol. They will only make the situation worse.
8- Look at yourself.
What went wrong with the relationship to cause it to end? Every relationship is a two-person dynamic. Try to identify what part she played and what part you played. If you take ownership of your role, you'll be less likely to repeat the same mistakes in your next relationship. Beware playing the blame game. Getting angry at yourself for your mistakes will not help. You just want to recognize what you did so the next time you're aware of your dynamic
9- "That which does not destroy us will make us stronger."
Remember this. This is a hard time and you WILL get through it. Look at this as an opportunity for growth and to test your strength as a human being. When it feels like too much, be sure to call on those support systems.
10- "Let go and let God."
You can't control what another person does, but you can control how you react. Pray, meditate, read inspirational stories, whatever will get you through. Remember others have been through this and came out on the other side and you will too. Breathe in and out. It will get better.

◘◘◘ I REALLY HOPE I HELPED YOU BY SOME IDEAS ◘◘◘

How To Keep Love Alive ?‼

How To Keep Love Alive ?‼

Here are some tips :
1-Tell her you love her. Do you do it enough? Be specific. Say, "Honey, you make me laugh," or "You're the sexiest person I've ever met." Only say it if you mean it. She'll know the difference
2-Buy her flowers. Do it today! Don't just wait for a special occasion. Surprise her!
3-Take her out on a date. So many long-term couples don't go out on dates, especially if they live together or have kids. A date doesn't have to cost a lot of money. Go see an art opening or a free concert in the park.
4-Make a date for romance. Is your love life in a rut? Plan an evening of intimacy. Turn off the TV, light candles, put on some romantic music, send the kids to a baby sitter or get a hotel room.
5-Tell her she's beautiful.
6-Have interests of your own, but make time for her. She fell for you because you intrigued her. Keep doing what you love. If you're a well-rounded person, you'll always have things to talk about.
7-Encourage her to follow her heart's desire. Does she have a hidden dream? Does she fantasize of being a famous painter? Buy her an easel. Has she always wanted to climb Mt. Everest? Buy her books on Nepal or a new pair of hiking boots. Does she want to return to school? Help her apply for financial aid. The happier she is with herself, the happier she'll be with you.
8-Listen with your ears and your heart. Let her know you're paying attention. Ask her what she would like to make your relationship better. Be open to what she has to say
9-Follow up your words with actions. Did you promise to go with her to visit her mother? Say you were going to take her out on Saturday night? Return the videos? Do it!
10-Communicate. Listen with respect. Repeat what you heard her say. Validate her points. Validate her.
♠♠♠♠♠ I HOPE I HELPED U GIRLS WITH THESE TIPS :) ♠♠♠♠♠

Keeping the Love Alive in Long Distance Relationships

Keeping the Love Alive in Long Distance Relationships

[ Tips for Managing Long Distance Relationships ]

Are you and your loved one separated by distance right now? It can be a challenge to keep the love alive, even if the time spent away isn't long. Try some of these tips for long distance relationships to let your sweetie know just how much you care.

"Watch" a romantic movie together by renting the same flick at the same time. The two of you can discuss the film later by phone, email, or the next time you see each other in person.
Send each other loving gifts appropriate for a long distance relationship, like taking out an ad in the local-to-them newspaper to express your love, learning how to take erotic photos of yourself and then emailing the results, or ordering a romantic dinner for them to be delivered to their home.
Write a love letter to say I love you.
Send as many ecards and physical cards as you can afford to let your partner know they are always on your mind.
Send romantic text messages to keep the love alive.
Use an internet phone service like Skype to ensure your long distance phone bills remains manageable.
Start a blog of your relationship, and commit to posting on a regular time schedule to keep each other up-to-date on your daily comings and goings.
Continue to have "dates" with each other, where you use a webcam to share time like you normally would when the two of you are at home.
Create an ongoing, frequently updated list of the things you want to do together the next time you see each other. This could be as simple as using a free list service like Backpack It, or sending each other one piece of paper back and forth with your care packages for the other to update.

افكار تزيد من محبتها لك‏

افكار تزيد من محبتها لك‏

التعامل معها

1- أوفر الراحة لها في كل الظروف الحياتية .

- لا أظهر عيوبها في الملابس أو الطعام أو الكلام بشكل مباشر .

- أشتري لها هدية بين حين وآخر وأبتكر في تسليم الهدية لها كأن أخفيها في مكان ثم أدعوها إليه مثلاً

- لا أكون متعنفاً في التعامل معها وأتذكر أنها امرأة ((حبيبتى )) .

- إذا كانت لديها هواية أشجعها عليها وأشاركها في إبداء الرأي ولا أقول (( أنا لا أفهم في الطبخ أو الزراعة أو الخياطة أو الكمبيوتر ..ولا استخف بورمانسيتها اذا كانت زائدة. )) .

- أراعيها في بعض حالاتها النفسية وخصوصاً في وقت ( الدورة – ) .

- إذا كنت معها فلا أفكر بعملي وأتحدث معها باهتماماتها وأحوالها اليومية .

- أناديها باسم مميز أتحبب به إليها .

- تقبيل رأسها إذا بذلت مجهوداً من أجلي أوحين اراها.

- أشجعها على حضور دورات وانشطه وتطوير من نفسها وتشجيعها .

- أفاجئها ببعض الطلبات التي كنت أرفضها فأحضرها لها .

- إذا أعطتني هدية أنقل لها رأي أصدقائي فيها .

- أزين ألفاظي عند ندائها أو أثناء الحديث معها ولا أعاملها كما يعامل الرئيس مرؤوسه بالأوامر فقط .

- أتخذ الزينة في لباسي فإن ذلك محبب إليها .

- أحاول قول الشعر فيها أو النشيد في وصفها .

- أتغزل بها بين حين وآخر سواء كان الغزل قولاً أو فعلاً .

- أمتدح زينتها إن تزيّنت ، وأبالغ في المدح .

أهتم بها ، وأقبّلها وأوفر الجو الصحي لها .

- أقوم بالأعمال التي كانت تعملها .

- أعطيها هدية بعد شفائها .

- أسهر على راحتها .

- أدعوا لها بالشفاء .

- أوفر لها الطعام .

- أسافر معها إن استطعت ذلك .

- إذا سافرت عنها أخبرها بمشاعري تجاهها ومكانتها في قلبي .

How Can I Tell If I'm In Love?or the other person is

How Can I Tell If I'm In Love? or the other person is

. Ask yourself the following questions so you'll know when its love.
Am I In Love Clue #1: Physical Responses
One of the ways to know its love is by the physical responses you have to your partner when in their presence or thinking about them. Do you shiver? Get goosebumps? Blush? Sweat? Feel tingly all over? Cry when saying goodbye? Get stomach flip flops or butterflies? Feel like there is a lump in your throat? Can't stop smiling? Feel warm and fuzzy? All of these physical responses are indicators that you may have found love



when your in love your mind cant stop thinking about that person. when you are away from them you feel nothing, you just want to see them and hear their voice and know if they are ok or they are thinking about you to. when you are close to them you just want them to be near you and not move away. when they are happy you are happy. the sound of there vocie brings a smile on your face and send chills down your body. you can trust them no matter what anyone else says. you can easly imagine your future with them. you want to hold them and not let go. and when you see them in a crowd you feel like you two are the only ones there. AND you can easly tell them that you love them with out think about weather or not you should say it.
You will know because no matter what anyone says you are not going to be able to leave the person alone and also that is the 1st thing you will think about when you wake up and the last thing you think about when you go to sleep when you hold hands it makes you feel like that When your in love, you will know. You will care deeply for a certain person no matter what he or she does to anyone. It will be more than a crush, and something you have never felt for any person before. You will be trying to be with him or her forever.


you get this amazing feeling when they touch you or just hold you. you get butterflies no matter how long you have known them. when they hug you every wall that you have ever built from keeping out breaks down. You just want to be with them. laying in thier arms just makes you forget about the world and all the pain. I belive you know your in love when there always on your mind when you see them you get nervous ive known her for years and we have been friends for 4 years and i still get nervous when i see her. shes gets me frustrated but i cant ever be mad. i love everything about her even her imperfections. You cant help who you love its just soemthing that happens. you cant choose no matter how much you want to.

when your stomach feels funny, you can't wait to see him/her and you feel very nervous about it too. When you are always thinking of him/her. When you are very shy and timid towards him or her. When your body trembles when touched






Am I in Love?
How to Know if You're Really in Love

It is a very common question, "How can I tell I'm in love?", but it is not an easy question to answer. What feels like love to one person may be nothing more than attraction to another. Some people fall in and out of love quickly and often while others are never really in love as much as they are in lust. This can get confusing when you are a teen because romantic love is a relatively new concept for you and you don't know what to expect. You are overwhelmed with all sorts of new feelings and social pressures. They are confusing. What is love? What makes you want a romantic relationship with one person and not another? How does your heart choose a partner? Why does love end? These questions can't be easily answered.
One of the most confusing quasi-love feelings is lust. Lust is a very powerful, very intense feeling of physical attraction toward another person. Lust is mainly sexual in nature - the attraction is superficial based on instant chemistry rather than genuine caring. Usually we lust after people we do not know well, people we still feel comfortable fantasizing about. It is very common for people to confuse lust for love. But why? What is it about lust and love that make them so easy to mix up? If lust is all about sex, how can a relationship without sex be about lust? Teens struggle with this because they see lust in the Biblical sense, but lust isn't that sinister. Lust is about physical attraction and acting ONLY on physical attraction. Love is about much more than that. Yet many teens (and to be fair, many adults) confuse an intense attraction for some sort if divine love. For teens, since feelings of attraction are still new and since pop-culture sells sex and love as one package, it is very easy to get the two mixed up.
Lust is clearly not love. Love is based on more than just physical attraction. Sure, attraction is a factor, but love goes deeper than that. Love is based on caring, friendship, commitment and trust. When you are in love it is as if you have your best most trusted friend at your side AND you feel physically attracted to them. It is the best of both worlds! Love is a shared feeling between two people who have a vested interest in one anothers happiness. Love is not about jealousy. It is not about conflict. It is not about testing. Love is a positive feeling. If it is tainted by mistrust, jealousy, insecurity or spitefulness it is not really love but merely a pale copy. Love is the total surrender of your heart to another person with the security of knowing they will treat it better than you will. Love should feel good. It should not feel bad. Love should make you want to be a better person, it should not lead you to do something self destructive. Love is not demanding of your spirit but lifts it and makes it glow. Love is a good thing. Anything less is lust, deep friendship or attraction. So the sappiness aside, the question remains, how can you tell you are in love?
There is no easy way to find the truth behind your feelings or the feelings of another person but there are some tell-tale signs that love is blooming (or growing deeper). If you agree with 7 of the following 9 statements you are probably in love.
You know, because you have been told by your significant other, that your deep feelings are returned in kind.
The object of your affections makes you feel special and good about yourself.
If/when you feel jealous it is always fleeting; you trust your partner not to betray you or hurt your relationship.
Nothing makes you feel as serene as when you and your partner are together.
When you fight with your partner you usually make up within a few hours and you always agree that nothing is more important than you both being able to express your true feelings (even if they sometimes cause conflict).
Your partner never asks you to choose between him/her and your loyalties to your family and friends - if you do choose him/her over them you always have a good reason and it is always YOUR decision, and your decision alone.
Neither you or your partner feel the need to test the other's loyalties or feelings.
You are more yourself when with your partner than you are with anybody else.
If sex is part of your relationship it is by mutual desire and agreement without the slightest hint of commitment testing or persuasion.