Lesbian Truth vs. A Misunderstood Society View

Lesbian Truth vs. A Misunderstood Society View Society View: Lesbians look and act like men. Often referred to as "dykes". Lesbian Fact: Although there are some lesbians who do fit into the stereotypical description, there are plenty of lesbians who are very feminine looking and acting. I didn't know a lesbian had to play the part of a dyke to be initiated into lesbian hood. Society View: Lesbians were abused as young girls or had a bad experience with men. Lesbian Fact: The sad fact is that there are a lot of women (straight and lesbian) were abused as children. However, there are plenty of lesbians who were NOT abused as children and who did NOT have bad experiences with men. The fact is this: You are either born gay or you're not. You will realize it when you're young, older, old, or never. Society View: Being lesbian is a choice. Lesbian Fact: Thinking that being homosexual is a choice is like saying being attracted to blondes, red heads, brunettes, fat, skinny, black, white, Asian, or Hispanics is a choice. they do NOT choose who they fall in love with nor do they choose who they are attracted to. lesbians were NEVER attracted to the opposite sex since the day they were born. Although some may have dated the opposite sex in younger years or married in adult years, that doesn't mean that their attraction to the same sex was not there. It simply means that their "denial" superseded their inner awakening and identity. Many lesbians claim after coming out that they knew in the back of their mind that they were attracted to the same sex, but they "settled" on dating or marrying the opposite sex for not wanting to go against what society wants from them. It takes a courageous person to "come out of the closet" and admit to who they are. There are also many that will tell you that by their "choice" to marry the opposite sex didn't make them happy NOR make their partner happy in the long run. Was it fair to marry a man who you know you would never truly be fully in love with or be attracted to? Is this fair to the man not ever being fully loved (mind, body, and soul) by his wife? Is it fair to the woman to give up her desires for someone that is not for her and a lifestyle that will never make her truly happy? The ONLY choice that was made in these situations were not to being themselves and being true to themselves or to the person they married. Not living for you is a choice. Pretending is a choice. One more statement regarding "choice": Who in their right mind would "choose" to be lesbian knowing the battlefield (societies ignorance and hatred) that lays out there for homosexuals? Society View: Being a homosexual is all about sex. Lesbian Fact: Indeed there is a sexual factor in "homosexuality"; same as "heterosexuality". Sex and love are two entities. Anyone can have sex; only people in love make love. Most homosexuals are like anyone else --- they are looking for "love". In other words, homosexuals prefer the same sex partners for love and with love comes love making

everything about tomboy(Androgyne)

everything about tomboy(Androgyne)

everything about tomboy Tomboy tomboy is a girl who behaves according to the stereotypical gender role of a boy. This can include various things: Wearing non-feminine clothes, typically for comfort or practicality or sport Enjoying boy's stereotypical games, interests and activities, such as running, jumping, climbing trees, science, and sports like soccer and baseball. Many girls can be seen as exhibiting a mixture of both tomboy and girly girl behavior(androgyne)and this has been held up by many as the "ideal" female lifestyle as their view is that if a girl either exhibits an extreme image of a tomboy or a girly girl, she misses out on too many experiences.� However, critics of this hold that such an idealistic image of an intermediate, "uni-sex" behavior is a stereotype by itself, and too general to actually mean anything. Some contribute, and some tomboys themselves think, the substantial cause of their inclination is spending their childhood and/or adolescence in an environment where the male presence or action predominates, and having therefore a lack of female role models. For example, a family with: more than 2 brothers and 1 or fewer sister, or a single father a school mostly of boys, hence the tomboy befriends few girls. Historically tomboys were defined by both behaviour (according to the stereotypical gender role of boys) and wearing boys' clothing. In recent times, as the use of "traditional" clothing such as dresses, blouses and skirts steadily declines among females, the distinction has become almost solely one of behaviour. A general increase in the popularity of woman's sporting events, (see Title IX), and other activities that were traditionally male-dominated is today lessening the impact of "tomboy" as a pejorative. many tomboys are androgyne........ Androgyne An androgyne is a person who feels that they do not fit cleanly into society's boxes labeled men and woman. An androgyne may identify with the gender identity of a combination of male and female or as neither / neutrally gendered. They may also use the terms non-gendered or bigendered. They may experience swings between genders. An androgyne is a person with the gender identity of either both male and female or neither. It is a misconception that androgyny is just a fashion statement, behavior, or set of visual cues. One could say that all androgynes are psychologically androgynous, whereas not all androgynous-looking people are androgynes. Androgynes sometimes refer to themselves using blended pronouns like Ze, Hir etc, and use a gender tag Mx instead of Mr. or Mrs. tomboy: 1. A girl with boyish ways, interests and behaviors; a boyish or butch girl . 2-agirl who wants to do boys stuff dress in sport is very active a tomgirl she didn't want to be a boy . She just wanted to do-the-things boys do shes very athletic adventurous ,strong ,direct , self-confident ,rude , rough, tough, logical ,mechanically-minded 2. A lesbian ; obviously meant to be jocular or sarcastic, but perceived as disparaging. androgynous: Being neither distinguishably masculine nor feminine ; blending both traditional male and traditional female what is atomboy ?. A tomboy is a girl who behaves according to the stereotypical gender role of a boy. This can include various things: Wearing non-feminine clothes, typically for comfort or practicality. Enjoying boy's stereotypical games, interests and activities, such as running, jumping, climbing trees, science and baseball. Many girls can be seen as exhibiting a mixture of both tomboy and girly girl behavior, and this has been held up by many as the "ideal" female lifestyle as their view is that if a girl either exhibits an extreme image of a tomboy or a girly girl, she misses out on too many experiences.� However, critics of this hold that such an idealistic image of an intermediate, "uni-sex" behavior is a stereotype by itself, and too general to actually mean anything. Some contribute, and some tomboys themselves think, the substantial cause of their inclination is spending their childhood and/or adolescence in an environment where the male presence or action predominates, and having therefore a lack of female role models. For example, a family with: more than 2 brothers and 1 or less sister, or a single father a school mostly of boys, hence the tomboy befriends few girls. Historically tomboys were defined by both behaviour (according to the stereotypical gender role of boys) and wearing boys' clothing. In recent times, as the use of "traditional" clothing such as dresses, blouses and skirts steadily declines among females, the distinction has become almost solely one of behaviour.

lesbian

lesbian: 1. A homosexual woman .(love or desire) for people of the same sex A person who is sexually or romantically attracted only to people of the same gender 2. Pertaining to lesbians or lesbianism. awomen loving women fem 2 fem what is a lesbian??? Lesbians are women-loving-women. We are women who are sexually attracted to other women. We are women who may feel emotionally and spiritually closer to women. We are women who prefer women as our partners. As lesbians, we are not alone. One out of ten teenagers is lesbian or gay. Many famous women in history were lesbians. Lesbians are teachers, doctors, lawyers, factory workers, police officers, politicians, ministers, movie stars, artists, mothers, nuns, truck drivers, models, novelists. You name it, we do it. Lesbians are White, Black, Asian, Hispanic, Native American, Jewish, Catholic, Protestant, Buddhist. Lesbians are rich, poor, working class, and middle class. Some lesbians are in heterosexual marriages. Some lesbians are disabled. Lesbians are young women and old women. You name it, we are it. Lesbians live in cities and in the country. We are everywhere!! During adolescence, most young women begin to be aware of sexual feelings and take an interest in dating. Many young women feel physically attracted to men. But many other young women feel physically attracted to other women. You may notice that you feel turned on by other women. You may feel different from your girlfriends, like you don't fit in sometimes. When your girlfriends are checking out boys, you may find yourself checking out girls. Going out with boys may not interest you. You may find yourself wondering, "Why aren't there any men like these terrific women I keep meeting?" You may also feel confused or unsure about whether or not you're a lesbian. Many adults will tell us that we're too young to call ourselves gay, or that we're going through a phase, or that we don't know what we're talking about. That's their way of avoiding the fact that some of us are lesbian youth. You may feel confused because you're attracted to both men and women. That's OK. Some women have relationships with both men and women throughout their lives. Some may later decide to be exclusively lesbian or heterosexual. Our sexuality develops over time. Don't worry if you aren't sure! Yes, you are normal. It's perfectly natural for people to be attracted to members of their own sex. But it's not something that's encouraged in our society. Many people push away these feelings because of prejudice against gay men and lesbians. Most scientific experts agree that a person's sexual orientation is determined at a very young age, maybe even at birth. It's normal and healthy to be yourself, whether you're gay or straight. What's really important is that we learn to like ourselves. Coming out is the process of accepting yourself as a lesbian and figuring out how open you want to be about your sexual orientation. Unfortunately, not everyone you know will think that being a lesbian is the greatest thing since sliced bread. It's hard to know who can handle the information and give you support. Some friends may accept you. Some may turn away from you or tell other people without your permission. Telling family can be very difficult. Some families are very supportive. But some lesbian and gay youth have been kicked out of their homes when their parents found out. Maybe there's a guidance counselor or social worker in your school, or in a local youth or counseling agency, that you can trust. It's important to have someone to talk to because it's not normal or healthy for young people to have to keep secret such an important part of their lives. Deciding whether or not to be sexual with someone is a big decision. You may feel very scared at the thought of having sex with another women. That's OK. Lots of us do, especially if it's our first time. Women aren't encouraged in our society to talk openly about sex, but it's important that we communicate about what we like and don't like to do sexually, whether we feel ready to have sex or not, and different expectations we may have about the relationship. There are many ways that lesbians can be sexual with each other. We can give each other pleasure by holding, kissing, hugging, stroking, stimulating each other's genitals with our tongues and hands, inserting our fingers into each other's vaginas, rubbing our bodies together to stimulate each other, and anything else we want to do. We can use our imaginations!

lesbian pride

It's truly not fair that you can have monogamous affairs and unfaithful relation, but the whole nation looks at us as " Lesbians" the start of that inflation. Every body say that we are a devil's creation for showing affection we become the infected people, like we are a disease or some common sickness... they talk so much trash, about how wrong I am, and that the promise land doesn't have a place for me. Last time I checked I didn't have to answer to anyone but the man upstairs" GOD" , but you don't care, the lord and me share, something that human hands can never tear. I can't blame them for not being open-minded, but at least take time to find the piece that's missing. Instead of dissing my lifestyle, make time here worthwhile, because whether you like it or not I'm still going to smile. Maybe you haven't realized it yet, or your brain is too small to accept the concept or maybe it's something you just don't get but. I'M A LESBIAN, so get over it!!!!!! *

1. What is lesbians? Lesbianism starts with feelings. A woman can feel love and affection for another woman, and also feel sexually attracted to her. She can fall in love with women and want to express these feelings in a sexual way. If she has these feelings mainly or only for women, she may call herself a lesbian (or gay woman or female homosexual). 2. Can any woman be a lesbian? Not every woman is a lesbian, but many women do have lesbian feelings. Most women are involved with men or married. Some of these women are lesbians. If a woman chooses to be a lesbian, she is one. Many women do not have a free choice about the way they want to live and love, but they may be lesbians also. Any woman can be a lesbian: your neighbour, your doctor, your sister, your teacher, your daughter. 3. How many lesbians are there? According to surveys done at different times and in different countries, one to two out of every 20 women are lesbians. Some research has found that 50 percent of the women interviewed had lesbian experiences and feelings. There would be many more lesbians if women had a free choice. But currently it is considered 'normal' in most societies to be heterosexual (women loving men) and 'abnormal' to be homosexual (women loving women). 4. Where in the world does lesbianism occur? Everywhere, in every country, culture and society. But in some societies women are free to choose, while in others women have little choice about how they will live. It may seem that in western countries, where it is often easier to be a lesbian, that there are more lesbians, but this is probably not correct. Society may influence how visible lesbians may be, and society may suppress lesbians, but the feeling cannot be killed. As international lesbian networks grow, we learn about more hidden groups and individuals in more and more countries 5. What causes lesbianism? Can it be cured? Some lesbians believe they are born lesbian, others feel that they have chosen to be lesbian. There may be many causes, just as there are many causes that make someone heterosexual. But why try to find the cause or causes? For a long time homosexuality was considered a disease. 'Cures' such as injecting lesbians with female hormones or placing lesbians in rehabilitation camps were tried. Homosexuality is not an illness and 'cures' such as those above amount to physical and mental torture 6.How do lesbians live and love together? Lesbian relationships take many forms. There are single lesbians, celibate lesbians, monogamous lesbian couples, lesbians who live together but are not monogamous, lesbians who also have relationships with men. The important thing is that everyone has a free choice about creating her own way of life. Many lesbians do not want to imitate heterosexual ways of living, where one partner is feminine, the other is masculine, dividing the roles according to the sex. The same is true for sexual loving: you find out, by yourself and/or with other women, what you like and what you don't like. There are no rules except the ones you make for yourself.

How do i know if i am a lesbian????????

How do i know if i am a lesbian???????? Lesbians are women-loving-women. We are women who are sexually attracted to other women. We are women who may feel emotionally and spiritually closer to women. We are women who prefer women as our partners. As lesbians, we are not alone. One out of ten teenagers is lesbian or gay. Many famous women in history were lesbians. Lesbians are teachers, doctors, lawyers, factory workers, police officers, politicians, ministers, movie stars, artists, mothers, nuns, truck drivers, models, novelists. You name it, we do it. Lesbians are White, Black, Asian, Hispanic, Native American, Jewish, Catholic, Protestant, Buddhist. Lesbians are rich, poor, working class, and middle class. Some lesbians are in heterosexual marriages. Some lesbians are disabled. Lesbians are young women and old women. You name it, we are it. Lesbians live in cities and in the country. We are everywhere!! During adolescence, most young women begin to be aware of sexual feelings and take an interest in dating. Many young women feel physically attracted to men. But many other young women feel physically attracted to other women. You may notice that you feel turned on by other women. You may feel different from your girlfriends, like you don't fit in sometimes. When your girlfriends are checking out boys, you may find yourself checking out girls. Going out with boys may not interest you. You may find yourself wondering, "Why aren't there any men like these terrific women I keep meeting?" You may also feel confused or unsure about whether or not you're a lesbian. Many adults will tell us that we're too young to call ourselves gay, or that we're going through a phase, or that we don't know what we're talking about. That's their way of avoiding the fact that some of us are lesbian youth. You may feel confused because you're attracted to both men and women. That's OK. Some women have relationships with both men and women throughout their lives. Some may later decide to be exclusively lesbian or heterosexual. Our sexuality develops over time. Don't worry if you aren't sure! Yes, you are normal. It's perfectly natural for people to be attracted to members of their own sex. But it's not something that's encouraged in our society. Many people push away these feelings because of prejudice against gay men and lesbians. Most scientific experts agree that a person's sexual orientation is determined at a very young age, maybe even at birth. It's normal and healthy to be yourself, whether you're gay or straight. What's really important is that we learn to like ourselves. Coming out is the process of accepting yourself as a lesbian and figuring out how open you want to be about your sexual orientation. Unfortunately, not everyone you know will think that being a lesbian is the greatest thing since sliced bread. It's hard to know who can handle the information and give you support. Some friends may accept you. Some may turn away from you or tell other people without your permission. Telling family can be very difficult. Some families are very supportive. But some lesbian and gay youth have been kicked out of their homes when their parents found out. Maybe there's a guidance counselor or social worker in your school, or in a local youth or counseling agency, that you can trust. It's important to have someone to talk to because it's not normal or healthy for young people to have to keep secret such an important part of their lives. Deciding whether or not to be sexual with someone is a big decision. You may feel very scared at the thought of having sex with another women. That's OK. Lots of us do, especially if it's our first time. Women aren't encouraged in our society to talk openly about sex, but it's important that we communicate about what we like and don't like to do sexually, whether we feel ready to have sex or not, and different expectations we may have about the relationship. There are many ways that lesbians can be sexual with each other. We can give each other pleasure by holding, kissing, hugging, stroking, stimulating each other's genitals with our tongues and hands, inserting our fingers into each other's vaginas, rubbing our bodies together to stimulate each other, and anything else we want to do. We can use our imaginations!

There's nothing ::Extraordinary----> when 2 gUrlZ talk all day long There's nothing ::Out of the ordinary----> when 2 gUrlZ talk all night long There's nothing :: Eccentric----> when 2 gUrlZ make love There's nothing :: Peculiar ----> when 2 gUrlZ hug There's nothing :: Strange----> when 2 gUrlZ sleep together There's nothing :: Unethical----> when 2 gUrlZ enjoy being girls There's nothing :: bizarre----> when 2 gUrlZ hold hands There's nothing :: weird----> when 2 gUrlZ kiss There's nothing :: inappropriate---->when 2 gUrlZ fall in love There's nothing :: wrong---->when 2 gUrlZ feel that is right

Being a lesbian Is Not.... Some ppl think that being a lesbian is da (curse) from God! and that by knowing one,they would be Sinner and would be thrown to Hell..!! Well for me,Being a _lesbian is not a Big deal..I mean I can accept the fact of having different ppl,with different mentality and cabability as well.. I can accept them as long as they are Human being..I dont even say that Eww this is a Bi-Sexual..gay ...black or whatever Being _lesbian... Is like that you have it in your nature...(tomboy) Acting in a Masculine way sometimes (I forgot the right spelling for the word but what I meant is in manly way)... I do have male friends..But I cant think of'em as lovers..Its like when you ask one guy (can u kiss ur best male friend and he says Eww!! Nope!! Never!!)..

Yes I AM SO PROUD OF BEING A FEMALE AND A LESBIAN. I became a lesbian because of women, because women are beautiful, strong, and compassionate. "Rita Mae Brown " -You can't type what a lesbian is. We're anything and everything. The one thing in common is that we make love to other women. So give up trying to limit us. "Amanda Bearse, actor, television director " - There is nothing mixed up about a woman who loves women, who wants to have sex with them, or who identifies as a lesbian. It is society that is mixed up because it punishes people for not conforming to its gender stereotypes. "Edward Stein, editor of Forms of Desire: Sexual Orientation and the Social Constructionist Controversy" -But the fruit that can fall without shaking , Indeed is too mellow for me. "Lady Mary Wortley Montagu in The Answer " -Are there many things in this cool-hearted world so utterly exquisite as the pure love of one woman for another? "Mary MacLane, The Story of Mary MacLane by Herself " -Why should I paint dead fish, onions, and beer glasses?Girls are so much prettier. " Marie Laurencin, artist "

hOw 2 maKe lOve 2 a LesBiaN ?!!

lesbian is a woman who is sexually attracted to other women and prefers to have a woman as her partner. The word "lesbian" is a term that some women use to describe themselves when they understand their sexual orientation; however, some women prefer to use other terms like "gay" or "queer" and some prefer not to use a label at all.
1) Making out. While making out Lesbian Move #1 can be used, namely you putting one of your legs between hers and grinding it up so that every once in a while it hits the clitoris through her pants. If done by a master of the technique (which I am not, but was done to me) climax can be acheived whilst the bottom is STILL wearing pants.2) Clothing still on, but hands roaming around in the shirt, touching bare skin.3) Bra removal (while shirt is still on!) **Important Note** - To mask killing the mood whilst fumbling at the catches, suck on her neck a bit so that she's not thinking about how clumsy you are.4) LOTS of licking/ear sucking.5) Shirt/total bra removal.6) Kissing/licking/sucking upper chest and collarbone area. Optional: If you're a bit buff, reach behind her and like, hug her to you whilst doing this, tightish embraces at this point work fabulously.7) NO BREASTS YET! Torso Teaser: Take your tongue and run it all the way down (roughly in a straight line between her breasts) until you get to the waistline of her pants, then kiss/lick/suck her stomach and work your way up.8) NOW you can start in on breasts, but nipple work is last. Swirling your tongue has some fabulous facets to it, as does sucking. BDSM Option - Okay, NOT TOO HARD but just lightly enough to make it shocking, throw in a bit of a slow LIGHT bite, these are nipples here, don't be getting too hardcore with them!9) Now we're ready for the big guns (since pretty much all of lesbian sex is foreplay, also, if she makes moves to remove bits of your clothing LET HER! Lesbian sex is all about playing switch and taking turns getting one another off. Multiple orgasms in combination with alternating tops make it last a LONG time.10) Work your way back up and start making out again, if at any time during steps 2-8 you want to break and make out some more, feel free to do so, these are guidelines, not play by play scenarios, sex is a freestyle sport. Also, taking a breast (or two) in hand and kneading it (kinda like dough) is rather helpful every now and again.11) Work on neck/ear kiss/suck/lick-ing, whilst doing so, work on the buttons of her pants, and the fly. At this point depending on HOW naked the two of you are getting, you can either go for pant/underwear removal, or just work a hand down there. **Foreplay Bonus** - BEFORE you put your hand into her pants, spend some time kneading her inner thighs (through clothes) with some open handed squeezing.
12a) Second Party Masturbation: Okay, the key here is, just think about the things you like doing to yourself during masturbation, that, and FINDING the clitoris on another person, which may take awhile. Also, don't neglect the sides of the clitoris, and for Gods' sakes don't forget to relube every once in awhile. This can be taken care of rather hotly, take your middle finger and dip down, all nerves in the vaginal canal exist in the first 1/3rd of it after the opening anyway, so unless you're hunting down the G-spot or using a strap-on depth really doesn't matter all that much. Single finger penetration at this point, HOT! After you've gotten more lubrication, go back up and continue clitoral stimulation. Your hand is probably going to get excruciatingly tired, BUT KEEP GOING! Because you're probably going to have to speed up the tempo once your partner starts nearing climax, and that hurts like a bitch, but the payoff is worth it.
12b) Going Downtown: This requires total pant removal, to remove the awkwardness from the situation (ie, her pants/underwear are PROBABLY going to get stuck at some point) spend time, when something goes awry, kissing any available skin to make your partner feel sexy and not ridiculous because her pants are stuck. Okay, at this point, Pants/Underwear Are Now Off: There it is, in all of it's furred glory. Note: To make it easier on your partner you should really trim your bush down to a rather manageable size, because the last thing ANYONE wants to do is floss with your pubic hair, and yes, this DOES HAPPEN so be forewarned. Right, now we're working on foreplay-ish things, because that's what the majority of lesbian sex is (when considered by the hetero-realm), foreplay. So kiss/suck/lick her inner thighs, because they're highly sensitive, and if you're absolutely totally lost down there and can't even figure out WHERE the vaginal opening is (much less the clitoris) take ONE finger (depending on how totally gay your partner is, you may only be able to use one finger at ALL during all of this, some women are tighter than others) and do slow penetration again, and then drag it up her inner labial lips until you hit the clit, then you've found your treasure map X. Take your tongue and do the exact same thing you did with your finger, only you don't have to pull off penetration, just the slow upward stroke TO BE CONTINUED!

Dike, Dyke

There are girls who dress like men who hate being called queer, butch, homo, or dyke. It’s understandable, the first three being offensive. But why should a woman be offended by being called dyke? This is because dyke has become a slang word. Let’s take it back.We are named after Dike, the Greek goddess of moral justice. Why, I don’t know. But we are goddesses in ourselves. And when we are called butch, homo, fag, we forget that. Be proud. You are a Dike. You are a dyke.